Sunday, July 25, 2010

THE MOST FREQUENTLY ASKED QUESTIONS ABOUT MDS ENTRANCE

Respected Aspirants :)

I guess you all must have already experienced the heat of entrance preparation by now..
I know half of you must be actually worrying about the way you have been preparing and rest I Guess must be worrying whether you all be getting a seat this time…

There are two best thoughts which needs to be remembered each moment when you are sailing through these stressful days.

For the first half the people who are worrying.. “Success belongs only to those who are willing to work harder than anyone else”

And for those who are prepared well I guess you all should remember one thing.. "There is always a light at the end of tunnel”

I know the feeling which each one faces in those days of entrance preparation.. but No FEAR.. that’s actually needed the most to keep you r clock ticking..

It was almost 1 and half years now after writing that most acknowledged Blog I wrote for showing a hope for the new aspirants who face one of the big question when they just think about MDS preparation… “ How I prepared for my MDS entrance “ has been read around 4-5 thousand people till now, has been uploaded on many sites too and indexed by Google.... I am really thankful to all those kind people who enabled to make me a mark on the path of this difficult journey of MDS preparation.

Although the blog does solve most of doubts about entrance prep.. but few things did missed out in that blog of mine. I did promise to few of my sweetest aspirants that I will be writing the new one soon.. And for those who waiting it.. HERE it GOES

“THE MOST FREQUENTLY ASKED QUESTIONS ABOUT MDS ENTRANCE”

Have received many mails, calls, asking many question.. most of the time they are repeated so often that sometimes I even felt like just copying and pasting my earlier response.. I am sure may be for the next 5 years these following questions will arise in each of the budding aspirants who keeps the first step in the path of entrance preparation. I have tried sincerely to explain each of them, in the way so that each one of you understands it. I have surely made the language simple , just to make you feel that you almost talking to a person who have always tried to make support the new aspirants… Believe in one thing.. U HELP SOMEONE TODAY, GOD WILL SURELY HELP U SOMEDAY.. HERE IT GOES :)


HOW SHOULD I PREPARE FOR MY ENTRANCE

I guess my first blog clearly gives the answers for this question. I request the first time readers to go through my earlier blog before reading this new blog.

HOW MUCH TIME IS NEEDED FOR PREPARATION?

Now time is money here.. it all depends on whether you are dropping or just preparing during internship.. keeping that point apart, you should make a time table of yours in which you should mark a deadline for each subject.. make sure the amount of time you allotted for successive revisions are less than the earlier one,, so if you plan your study this way then you will get a rough idea about the level of preparation you will be doing at the end of prep.


IS IT NECESSARY TO DO THEORY?

Now there are many people who give a different formula for entrance prep.. but you all should know one thing.. nobody guaranties you the success.. but yes.. they do give a hope.. somebody has said the truth.. “ To know the path ahead, ask those who are coming back” . This just means that if somebody has got success then you surely have a hope in that path.. but each you all should remember one thing.. every individual is different. Hence the amount of effort put by each individual is different and luck too.. but one thing you all should remember is, U REALLY CANT SAIL IN TWO BOATS AT A TIME.. “ the best advice to you all .. trust one , and follow it… don’t complicate things by listening to too many people.. ask one person who got a true success and follow it.,, what matters is the amount of trust you put in his words.. that’s what is imp to keep yourself motivated.. It also depends on your time and how you have read in your BDS days.. I never had time to read theory in my internship but I had worked hard during in my UG, so I was not much scared about the standard book.. but those who have taken a break of another year , I advise them to read the theory to because they have lot lot time for prep..

SHOULD I JOIN ANY COACHING ?

This is a complicated question!!.. the answer is not easy too.. I was from a small town called Belgaum where you hardly have coaching institutes,, and the other factor is the time you have to do for preparation..

The answer is!! Yeh do Join it.. only if you can… why??? The answer is simple.. in batch of 100 BDS students there will be 5 who rare truly interested in MDS entrance prep.. so imagine having 100 of such people who are constantly surrounding you , who are much serious about entrance than you are,!! How does that feel.. FEAR isn’t it… that’s actually which is needed when you start entrance prep.. you do need that fear which always motivates you for it..
But One thing holds true in this matter.. the final result does not depend on what coaching center you joined.. its once hard work which matters the most,. ALWAYS REMEMBER THIS!! Although u need to give some part of your credit to the coaching center .

Coaching center is the best place where you will be getting the latest question of various entrance examination.. This is most imp when it comes to securing a best rank in entrance.. getting those questions from the coaching institute is almost equal to giving all entrance exams.. but yes. It although completely can’t take the place of those exams.

SHOULD I JOIN A TEST SERIES?

This question was most asked by those who are devoid of coaching centers in their places…The answer is YES!! Now the other question which follows this..??

SHOULD I JOIN ONLINE TEST SERIES.?

The answer is NOOO * [ * conditions apply].. lol…. the reason why I said Nooo is because you don’t really feel anything when you give exams on this dumb box.. yehh try it once. it’s like just trying a new application on Facebook. He he...
Now why the[ *].. that’s because for those who don’t have classroom test series option then it’s a must to go for online test series.. “something is better than nothing” isn’t it??

The advantage of joining a test series specially the class room test series is it makes you feel the fear of exam which you will eventually get used to.. the another advantages is, you really can judge how many repeated question you missed in each exam… this gives you an idea about the amount of prep you needed so that you don’t miss the repeated once.

Two things which you all need to remember when it comes to test series.. you hardly have time to revise the explanation given by test series.. ya.. that’s true.. at the end of the year its damn difficult to revise those with books.. so make sure you give the best attempt every time so that you don’t have to repeat it again.

The 2nd thing you need to remember is not to follow the time table which the test series follows.. you really can’t do a single subject a full week and get top rank in that exam . if you do that then at the end of the year you will end up with 2-4 revisions only. that’s not the right thing .. maybe that’s ok for the first 2 months.. after that you need to have your own timetable so at the end of year you are done with many revisions .. so do remember this!!

WHICH ALL BOOKS NEED TO BE DONE?

Now there are lot many .. my first blog explains mentions all of them, so let’s not go in to depth.. yes.. many people do tell you to read theory.. but believe me , if you are sincere in attending internship.. then you hardly have time for it.. but if you have taken a break after internship then do it.. its imp to join coaching if u take a break because you need constant force to move ahead in this dark path of entrance so that you can reach the light at the end.. which is really difficult to travel along
Another imp thing which you should remember is to get all new editions of the books so that you don’t mug the wrong answers and you miss out any new question..


WHICH ALL EXAMS SHOULD I GIVE ?

Now that’s a big question!! That depends on how much money and time you have :P.. I believe you should give all genuine once.. why?? I still feel great to say that I got ranks in 6 out of 8 exams which I gave..

The must exams are
AIIMS
AIPG
PGI
KCET (Other state entrance)
Comed- K
Manipal/ MAHE

Apart from this there are
BHU( is an imp option)
KLEe/KAHE( too difficult and too easy sometimes)
Abshetty/NITTE
And still lot many like Yennapoya, linguistic minority and many other states private college association

No matter what exams you planning to give… Always AIM AIPG… and I am sure you will end up somewhere..

Ya. Few of you must be laughing over it.. but believe me.. it’s not a cake.. the path is really hard.. you miss out something.. then you missed it completely. So do give 100% every time.. it’s better to worry now rather than regretting later that u missed out something.

CAN I PREPARE FOR ENTRANCE ALONG WITH WORKING IN CLINIC?

Now.. There are few great people who are born intelligent.. I am not one them.. but I do believe in one thing.. Always give ur 100%.. It’s better to give your best attempt now rather than thinking why I gave only 99%.. Yes that does mean a lot of risk for one,,, but LIFE IS ALL ABOUT TAKING RISK.. nothing is easy.. preparing for entrance with that BIG QUESTION MARK!! FUTURE is risky,, but you really can’t sail in two boats at a time. The decision is based on how much work you have done in your UG and how much a MDS is imp for you.. I leave the decision to you..

MY DAD HAS LOT OF MONEY,, SHOULD I TAKE A MANAGEMENT OR READ FOR ENTRANCE?

Hmmm.. looks funny isn’t it!! No offence.. When a person has 100 rupee note in his pocket , its only then he thinks of spending 30 of it.. I guess you got the point.. first check whether you have one.. tell your parents not to expect you to make that 30 rupee into 100 as soon as you come out.. you should not judge the MDS seat value in that way.. you are paying such high amount as you have skipped the most stressful days of life.. so be happy for that.. time is money.. but if you sure of not having a confidence of clearing the entrance then listen to your dad.. after all whatever he has done in life is just you see happy

But do remember the taste of success tastes better with hard work,,, nothing can match that happiness

WHAT ABOUT MY GIRL FRIEND/ BOY FRIEND :)?

Someone did ask me this question when he read my first blog… I did advise him not to fall in love during entrance prep.. Another guy even reacted strongly saying few true words.. “love just happens…. But keeping that fact apart, I am really not against it.. you need know the imp of each things in life.. I just want convey you one message.. its damn difficult to find a partner who understands the imp of these days ,, I never said not to fall in love before or after entrance preparation day.. but if you have found a girl/boy who really supports you in these days and may be who is also trying for entrance prep then I guess you have found the one.. best of luck in this matter.

THE BIG QUESTION!! HOW TO MARK THE ANSWERS?

Now I follow rule of 4 for answering any paper..!!

1st rule- Around 50% of questions in any exams almost repeated from either textbooks or MCQ books.. so always answer those first. If your preparation is really good then by the time you read the first 2 words of the question, you will come to know that the question is repeated.. but if you feel that it’s not a repeated one, then don’t waste time in reading and trying to find answer. Just skip it..

2nd rule- Rest 20 % questions are indirectly related to the old question.. here you need to spend bit little extra time so that you can find the answer ,, but if you really not getting the answer then this needs to be answered by the rule 3rd. but before that complete the 2nd round

3rd rule- This rule is for the difficult questions .. this really tests you… it can be only answered by the extra knowledge which you have gathered whole year.. these are quite new questions.. but still answerable.. its these question which decides whether you will be in those top ranks…

4th rule- This is for the exams which do not have negative marking—this completely depends on your luck and logic.. so try it on at the last,,

So these rules should be followed one after another. That means.. 1st rule--- complete the paper—apply 2nd—complete the round—then it goes on

The advantage of doing this , you will know the amount of right question you already answered by the time you finished the first 2- rounds.. and you won’t be spending much time in answering the difficult question.

Believe me ,,, when you follow this pattern then you will finish the papers in half of the time which is allotted. I have done that.. but Yeh.. it depends on the number of revisions which you have done too..because most of the entrance exam is memory based.

Try it.. it works

IS THERE ANY SPECIAL PREPARATION BEFORE EXAMS??


Yes !!!! It starts 10-15 days before exams… specially before Aiims and AIPG..
No matter how many preparation you have done, there will be few subjects which you feel difficult.. so make sure you revise it 5-6 days before the exams.. and also make sure that you revise all the papers specially the exams which you will be giving first..
The next question is what if you have continuous exams??. I guess you will be hardly having few long breaks after giving AIPG as you will be having many exams after AIPG.. so you all need to remember one thing.. decide which is imp for you…for me Kcet was next imp exam , so I had around 15 days after AIPG.. so I planned a revision in those 15 days,, although I had 2 exams in between those.. but I only gave one day for revision of the papers of those in-between exams.. so I guess that gives an answer for it.. these last 15 days are very stressful and you should not over burn yourself.. so laugh, love the time spent with pals and sleep well.. but work according to the schedule

WHAT SHOULD BE DONE ONE DAY BEFORE EXAM?

Hmmm.. Now you all should remember one thing when your at the entrance of an exam hall… Hard work always pays.. It’s not a single day which matters in life.. It’s the whole life which matters the most… So when it comes to entrance u all should remember that the final result depends on your one year hard work and not the last day.. but yehh.. last day is imp too.. Specially for AIPG.. Medical papers are too difficult to remember.. especially when you mug the question from the different subjects which hardly goes deep into your head.. so one day before you need to revise at least the question papers which are most likely to come always.. so do it, you don’t have to read the explanation and all.. but you should at least remember the questions and answers.
And yes… chillllllll.. your brain needs rest .. so make sure you sleep well, laugh and give the best attempt at full concentration of yours… hope is what matters at the end,,



THE INSIDE STORY

Here I am just giving you a bird view of many entrance exams.. may be its very difficult to be specific but it does explain you something about each exam.

AIIMS

Hmmm.. I was not able to clear it though.. had got 328 rank,, not bad after a preparation of 6 month. Do fill the form.. many people will advise u not to waste money and time to give it.. people will say “ are!! Getting rank in Aiims is impossible at first attempt”… yup… but never give exam thinking that u need to get a seat in it.. but give it to test urself

Your actual preparation starts when you give Aiims exam.. its then you come to know how much you were able to recollect at the exam day. So you all should try it once.

PGI

I loved this one.. one of the best which most of you miss.. generally Dec session, romantic weather, just love it… now when it comes to PGI entrance exam , the seats are less too.,, quite similar to Aiims.. but I guess very few people apply for it,, but the advantage of giving PGI is you all will get your result within 8 hours… quite different than in Aiims.. getting an instant result in PGI boosts your moral,, unlike the Aiims where your have to wait for months to get to know your rank.. the question are mostly repeated from past PGI papers . Hence doing those papers from bytes are out most imp.. the top 10 rank varies In just few point percentages. So in those 100 question max 90 should be attempted.. believe me .. it’s true that most of the time guess works do go wrong..

So no matter who says … do give PGI.. its worth..

AIPG

Although lost it by 3%.. l,, but believe me.. they follow a set of pattern for exam.. most of the questions are repeated. It takes around an hour to mark those repeated question.. but the most difficult task Is to answer the new once,, anyway each question is imp.. marking the repeated question is most imp first than the new once.. so make sure you do medical papers too specially from other subjects. When you reading mudit khanna, do read all subjects , then mark the question which is related to you.. for example chromosome questions is given in pediatrics in their subject but its related to us also.. it’s here your effort makes a difference.. without medical papers you won’t be able to clear AIPG, and you need to follow the same rule for Aiims medical papers too. They do ask question from national boards papers mostly from the 70’s papers.. but make sure you have done rest of the books before doing this.. and yes.. you need to remember the other main thing also.. The negative marking.. that costs a lot.. I advise you all to mark max around 170-180,, not more than that because the cutoff generally ranges from 65% to 75%.

Yes.. it’s one of the most imp exams.. but the people who are giving the 1st attempt should not lose hope if they don’t clear it .. you need time for it.. maybe there are many who took a drop a year and I am sure they do deserve something more from it.. if you truly deserve it you will get it.. if not then make sure you give the best attempt till the last exams..

KCET

This is a Karnataka state entrance exam.. it’s like any state exam.. but one of the imp one.. the question are almost repeated and hardly any new things.. but it’s not that easy.. the seats are less and there are many people with same marks and yes.. reservation screws you when it comes to Kcet too.. hardly any use if you cross 25 ranks in GM.. but keeping the expectation apart, work had to reach that top 10 so that you get the dream branch.. yes.. the fees is quite more than the AIPG but it’s quite less compared to Comed and other exams.. and there is no negative marking.. be careful while attempting.. each mark is crucial.. also.. last year paper was indeed tough… so u need to be good with theory hence forth

Comed- K

People say,.,, its toughest after AIPG.. I don’t believe that,, yes I do agree that this exam is quite competitive and tests you to the core,, why?? I will tell you
The questions are mostly found in the discussion matter of all those books which has been mentioned, and specially past 2 years of Kcet and comed-K medical papers..
The main difference is the set of options they provide.. they really confuse you.. most of the options are so twisted , that really don’t cross your mind.. it just looks difficult.. but you need to understand the question properly then find the answer,, if you really don’t know what they have asked then answering comed-K becomes damn difficult.180 questions.. quite lot of time.. no extra prep… but take time to answer.. follow the rule of four.

Manipal

One of the genuine one.. in fact more genuine than AIPG.. you get marks with a click of the mouse button. During my time the pattern was quite different.. but I guess the exam consists of 200 questions now and there is no negative marking also,, and I guess the Manipal reservation is also removed from this year.. and the number of seats are more as it included two colleges., I really don’t know the latest pattern but I do believe one thing.. the questions are mostly theory oriented and taken directly from the textbooks.. so this is quite difficult, but not impossible.. repeated questions r quite less.

KLE/KAHE

Please don’t make a special prep for this.. just go and try your luck,, but AIPG prep + luck does give you a rank here..

Abshetty/NITTE

hmmm.. quite good… special preparation not needed.. mostly asked from recent papers and pulse and Dentest.. Specially from synopsis

The last one!!

I have been asked by many,, may be ,,I am still young to answer.. just doing my MDS, quite far from what’s called reality ,, many new aspirants to ask me one complicated question…

IS IT REALLY NECESSARY TO MDS?

IS IT WORTH DOING?

HOW MUCH SALARY WILL GET AFTER MDS?

MY FRIEND SAYS U CAN LEARN ALL THE THINGS IN CLINIC ONLY.. WHY SHOULD I WASTE MY 3 YEARS?


Hold on… first think whether you will be make it.. clearing a entrance with a GM category is in fact very difficult… before asking question first see how much your are capable of committing to it.. its note easy..

And when it comes to those question.. remember “YOU DON’T KNOW UNLESS U TRY”
For each individual priorities are different, but money is not the only thing.. there is something called a dream, a hope, a satisfaction for an individual, for me MDS was dream.. and I really don’t care for the future because god really don’t give chances always,, isn’t it?.. Yeh I do say that budget matters, except for AIIMSs, AIPG, and PGI , in other exams ,fees are high.. in fact I too would have dropped the idea I did not had such supporting family.. but you should not keep the KCET and Comed fees in mind and start prep.. in fact you should not think about seat at all.. you should only struggle hard to achieve that perfection which clears you through AIPG,.. yes I do agree that you might not clear at the end.. but you really can’t keep the negative thoughts and starts prep… its you thoughts which make impossible - possible.. be ready to face the reality but don’t be fooled by the fear of failure at the start of entrance prep. It makes a lot of difference.

If you really feel MDS is not an option for then, dude,,, shift to some other field,, may be u might shine there,, but if your strong enough to face each problem of life then come.. sail with us.

The WINNER.??

I have seen many who have left the prep in middle, may be due to some family problem, some other, but you all need to remember one thing.. Study is not everything in MDS prep.. it’s how you manage friends, how you mange time, how you manage your parents force to put a clinic or how to manage the force of your boyfriend/ girlfriend marriage proposal.. the winner is one who manages all these things and still completes the task of reading at stands in front of the exam center with that deep confidence of achieving something special at the end.. the fear, the adrenaline rush which he feels when he get the result… the depression when he/she need to face when he tastes the failure for the first time..

Remember..MDS is not life. But it’s a part,.. life is game… and these are the part of it.. you really don’t know where’s your destiny, but until you play the game of life,,, until you move with it,, you never know where you will end up..

So start playing now.. who knows… you might be next one to write another beautiful page in the story called .. “ WINNER”

And for the new aspirants who think it’s impossible.. Remember “THE GREAT PLEASURE IN LIFE IS IN DOING WHAT PEOPLE SAY YOU CAN NOT DO”
Thank you for reading this :)
Regards

Do read my other blog on entrance

 



Dr.Suresh D Shenvi



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EXTENSION OF THE BLOG..SPECIAL THANKS TO DR.NILESH KADAM for giving the answer to another imp question

NATIONAL BOARDS.. IS IT IMP???

Basic Question which student usually ask (mainly student who are new to such ALL India exam) that WHAT IS NBD? .

Basically these are the entrance exams conducted in US for admission to DDS course there which is conducted in parts.

The purpose of doing these papers is like when You look at old papers right from aipg 2001 to 2009 , there is History of atleast 20 Q/ paper (on an average)

Many people will say NBD is simple no need to do it u can solve it if it comes.!!!

My Ans - Yes very True its simple, No doubt about it.
But wht I think is when u already know the answer u are not in a position to do any 0.1 percent chances of mistake.
But if u reading NBD for the first tyme u may think in other way and go wrong. I ll say there are 1 percent chance.

In all exams topper also do silly mistake , silly mistake in NBD is CRIME in My sense.

Another Question-
Do we have to read only clinical or basic also?????

My ans- Try to finish clinical first , its utmost Imp in both
Basic had history of 1-2 Question been asked in each paper.
U cant really neglect Basic NBD though

So one has to read basic NBD for the reason it wil clear some doubts and concepts.

Is the answer justified in NBD????

My ans-- Since these questions being directly picked from NBD ans cannot be changed since they directly picked line to line from these papers
Stick to the ans wht they gave –
One line I used to say NBD = GOD , follow this

Now for the freshers –
There is not much tyme for the preparation of NBD .

I ll say-- Try to finish clinical NBD atleast .
Basic u can take chances.

Why do I say this Because , Basic Question mainly asked from medical papers in major bulk , ultimately it clears some Question of NBD too.
So if u doing Medical papers nicely, u can opt out Basic NBD!!

REPEATERS
U people know well what NBD meant and U have the sufficient time to read it
Better read 

Time management—
There are many papers OF NBD
Now main papers being from 1977 to 1989 . these are IMPortant
Newer Question set also available but u cant finish all the papers it will b hectic
So better read specific papers which are in trend .

There are on an average 9 papers per subjects if u take one paper per day u can finish one subject per 10 days
HOW?????
Paper will take 90 minutes maximum, and many repeat Question in subsequent papers
So later u can finish in 60 min .
It takes around 12 hours to finish one subject.

U can try doing NBD early in the morning when u ll b fresh 

TO CONCLUDE-

I planned my study with NBD those are my strong feelings about it , so I explained it to you.
AIPG 10 was exception for the reason NBD was not asked, but I think AIPG 11 wil be having atleast 20 Question from NBD ( strong belief)

One sentence at the end

AIPG PREPARATION IS NEVER COMPLETE
WITHOUT DOING NATIONAL BOARDS

DR.NILESH KADAM (1st PG conservative, Gdc Goa )

( Inspired from Dr. Suresh Shenvi 2nd pg from CODS Davangiri
to write some things which are really worth, Thanks Shenvi  )

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Thank you for reading this :)
Regards

Dr.Suresh D shenvi

[Pls note: this is not for publicity... it’s just a small effort to guide the new aspirants. The blog is clearly based on the experiences of the author. Everyrcare has been taken to put the correct information but opinions differ from individual to individual. Pls make sure u find the latest information about the various exams by few others who have cleared the recent exams. The author also thanks Dr.Gourishankar, Dr. Nilesh, Dr.Rohit and the various colleague who have been constantly supporting the work done by the author. Words are carefully selected so that it does not hurt the readers sentiments, but if in case it does then the author’s deep apologies, Any comments +ve or –ve one are always appreciated ]

Monday, January 18, 2010

SURESH D. SHENVI- A REVIEW!!!

IT WAS Since Feb '06 WHEN I JOINED ORKUT ,ALMOST 4 YEARS NOW ..I made so many friends IN MY LIFE AND ON ORKUT TOO. AROUND 512 NOW, some became dearest, some became special, some went abroad, some changed their cities, some left us, we left some, some are in contact, some are not in contact, some don't contact because of their ego, we don't contact because of our ego,what ever they are, how ever they are ,, I will still remember , love, miss, care for them because of the part they played to make our memories..

THIS BLOG IS JUST AN EFFORT TO SAVE THOSE TESTIMONIALS WHICH ALL HAVE WRITTEN FOR ME IN MY PAST 4 YEARS.. THANK U SO MUCH TO ALL :) LOVE U :)


Pavi-

ATLASS !! ohhh finally i have someone worthy enough for my appraisal!!!;)
suresh for me is a guy with true class that is cut apart from the rest of the crowd..
An extemelly intelligent,very sensitive,sensible,well mannered,to top it all very dignified human being...

ITS VERY HARD TO BELIVE BUT I DON KNW HOW I GOT TO MAKE FRENS WITH HIM.thanks to god for allowing me to make an effort to send tat one msg n v ve been frens frm then.we ve spent lot of time in the process of making good frens n i was truly blessed to ve him as my fren. thanks suresh for being ther..

a very different person who respects every view of the opponent,very calm n vivacious,ya sometimes emotional too.its hard if not impossible to fit you within 1024 letters from english alphabets;)BRAVO DUDE,3 cheers for this very FINE CHAP...

on the first look,looks very innocent neatly dressed n smiling face.but nothing could be farther from truth.he is a disguise in himself:)damn good person to talk with though we knw each other only a couple of mnths itseems lik i knw him frm yrs.thanks for being ther shenvi.hehe he doesnt lik me calling him shenvi thou.shenvi 4 anyone is a ready to help fren n u jus need to ask for it n he s ther for sure. to sum it up i wud lik to take the help of his frens testimonials down:)

truly one in Million-Zillion person..i owe my frenship to u forever ...i wish you all the very best for his future endeavours ...so mr suresh wat do i get wat this very humble n honey coated testimonial ;)hehe... take care buddy.. stay in touch.. may god bless u with the best of best for ur life..In all sincerity- drpavi4u ;)hehe

Anil

Shenvi ,Doctor , its been a pleasure seeing you evolve from ashes to something that everyone covets so hard to be .

Each of one us is securing something all the time , nothing to materialize but i think you are the biggest insurance i have got for that one little premium paid long long ago .

Years are passing by but still those stupid things we did are so vivid & priceless . The rains , the cycle , that blue full shirt you totally abused , the football which was tired of you , the front seat at math and back row at chemistry , vada pav's , those contributed gifts , adventures , trips , tests , fights .. God i can go on !

There are no real short cuts , with all those eyes staring & asking questions .. he has stood tall , very few knowing the the amount of hard work he has put in & those restless nights that he has spent in dark rooms . Victory can never be so sweet when you discover that you have defeated yourself .

The energy that resides in him is just magical , hard to find some one always ready , literally !

The principles & values are very intact , never forgets to wear that smile , respects & commands respect , Greek gods have also blessed him ... hmmm that kind of makes you almost a perfect XY chromosome :P , just find a XX for yourself & rest will be just perfect :) .

Infatuation is often confused with Love , which completely signifies for its intensity but heavily lacks durability . There are no logical reasons as to why you cannot have apple, orange & mango too :) . Attraction is the law of nature and it is justified from the various other ends . Decisions can be wrong & will be wrong but be slow , sure & stick if you decide to take important ones

Have read a lot of nice things about friendship but friends like you , make the word more meaning full & valued . I know we are always there for each other & personally i would never be vocal about a lot of things but this testimonial has been due for long long time :)

22nd july Two thousand Ten


Sneha

Smart, intelligent,scholy,humble,dedicated...polite..really really sweet guy I've come across...One who follows what he believes in..charismatic...A sign of excellence in all fields of life...
He has those three grand essentials to lead a happy life..something to do , something to love, something to hope for..An upbeat attitude towards life n behind that endearingly charming smile lies a warm heart thats there to lend a helping hand when needed...
May god bless u with all those u always wished for....cheers




SOUMYA-


Wel this has been pendin since long time. Shenvi hope u understnd m not very gud wit words. Wil try my best though. Here it goes. Hmm this world is very small. Does nt sound very right na. but I stil go by it cos u never kno whom u may meet frm ur past. Be it a co passenger frm a bus journey abt 20 yrs back!! Ya it happened wit me. 20 yrs back the bus i was travellin met wit an accident. whole bus turned upside down. was a bad one. v were just lucky to come out alive. n after hat my parents had a really tough time wen they had to get me onto a bus. cos i hated the thought of buses. wel thats my part of it. then nearly 15 yrs later I met this guy suresh on the day of admission. Al v spoke then was- casual vacancy?? he askd. I said ya. That’s it then v became frens. He was the next roll no after me in the 1st yr. n 2 roll nos after me for next 3 yrs. Though v were always together it took us 4 yrs to realise v had survived a bus accident nearly 15 yrs back.

n it felt really gud to meet someone who actually shared that experience wen there were times ppl dint believe my story of bus becomin ulta!! n thats one more way how v r connected other than bein batchmates!! wel to say abt him he's a great fren to be with.. he's a very patient listener ,always ready to help. a very sincere guy, hardworkin, n dedicated to watever he does. n above that very down to earth, n simple guy.

5 yrs has been quite a long time. v've shared many gud n bad times together n i hope it continues the same way. its really great to ve a fren like him. i sincerely wish u get al wat u desire n deserve n much much more:). n even ur miss right u've been waitin for;).

cheers dude:).. keep rockin:)



ADITI

my first impression of dis guy i met 8months back ws-a gud lukin;),studious, intelligent,decent, n friendly guy ...n i still hold the same view n havta add vry hardwrkin 2 the list of adjectives.....

unanimously our grp has selected him as '' one of the most eligible bachelor of CODS'';)
hez sum1 who believes in learning new things n improving evryday-sum1 who wud break his own record wid each passin day!

has an amazin PR(personal rapport)-chek out d no f friends on his orkut profile.........he has a friend in evry dental college dwn south!! n d bst thing is he is able 2 maintain all his friends,goes outta way 2 help thm,remembrs bddays,wishes on evry occassion-dat's quite a feat!

....an yes hez a tech n net savvy person-writes blogs, loves non veg,gymns, has no adverse habits.....gals thtz a gr8 package!(to all d single decent grls who read dis) ;)

hez nw in d process of learnin to loosen n relax n take life little less seriously......
gr8 goin my friend.....just take it easy bout impressions n wot ppl think bout u coz it hampers the process of self growth n prevents one frm living lyf to the fullest.

all in all hez a gr8 person wid gr8 aptitude n is here to do sumthin gr8 in life!!

bst of luck:)

rohit


s....sincere
u...ultimate
r....respectful
e...energetic/excellent
s...smart
h...honest

keep up ur good work buddy...all d best...cheers to shenvi




Mittali-

Well.. i think to be of help to sumone,one dsnt need to participate actively..

The guy here proved this to me..while i was preparing for MDS,all my depressing days turned a little better when i read sm of his scraps(m so glad u kept them visible to all..!!..).. i used to be so scared of him.. infact i thot he wld definitely top in aipg.... my fears got all the more strength wen he got 18th rank in pgi and i got 30th..

After aipg was done with.. i sent him a friend request out of the blue and refused to tell him anything before his exams.. i just thot its his time to study and not waste time on silly things.. and voila.. he came out in flying colours with 6th rank in KCET.. and i owe him some part of my rank too....

so you see.. he wasnt there actively.. bt he helped me so much by just being the way he was.. without knowing that he is giving so much to some one.. and as he puts it.. making a difference..

thank you buddy for every single positive thought u brought my way..

so we have been friends now for quite a long time..and because i have been challenged with lets see how much you know me.... here we go..

this guy is a very sensitive and emotional person.... and what i love in him is his ability to always see the glass half full.... loves to write the story of his life in his blogs and help people by telling them that at one time he too sailed in the same boat....

i love to call him shenvi..(this is one thing u dont know shenvi..).. we have grown from strangers to good friends today.. i just hope we keep finding the time and spirit from our life to continue this forever..

multilinguistic shenvi has taught me some great kannada words too.... and i just hope i would be able to teach him some punjabi one day..

according to him i am "different".. in his words.."mujhe samajh nhi aata tha ye ladki kaisi hai..!!..".. haha.. bechara shenvi..

so shenvi.. this orthodontist wishes u all the luck for everything u do in life.. and as u said be in touch..always.. nhi to maar khaaoge..

and do come to punjab some time.. punjabi vi sikha deyaange te naale makki di roti te sarson da saag vi khilavaange.... shayad koi punjabi kudi pasand aa jaave..

good luck maga for everything.. to you and to your yet to come better half..

and becoz shenvi loves to put his name and date beneath a testimonial.. i will do this with all the due respect..

Mittali Sethi
28/4/09


Dipesh

"THE PERFECTIONIST" dats wht we call him.A truly dedicated person to whtever he does whether it be studies or any extracurricular activity. the editor and person because of whom we got our 1st college magazine 4 which he has undertaken mch pain nd pangas but he does wht he says..... thnks a lot 4 dat magazine bro......a frnd who always helped me in every matter but in case of studies hats off to you buddy i am very happy 4 u dat u got rank in alsmost al entrances .....a friend whos always ready to help others in all situations a frnds whom u can always trust.....but a bit short tempered nd impatient 4 whch he alwys ends up wth sme prblm but dat was always fun 4 us to sort out dis stupid things.........a person who has true feelings but always fears of expressing them ...he he i guess we all r like dat...thks a lot buddy 4 all ur help ......hope u get ur dream gal...........


Puneet


This testimonial has been due for long..and well deserved too..
"Doc"(tats hw I call him) is such a lovely friend with a childish heart.A true inspiration for all medicos..Brainy and hard working wit over-supply of ATPs tat keeps him always charged(I call it over excited state!!) A constant gardener of thoughts..Fun to be with.. I wish him all the luck and may his wish of getting a MDS seat come true soon.My only advice for him is to think beyond the obvious( I hope u got it bro).
Its been wonderful journey dosta..Long live our love;-)
And never say no to our Goa trips...





Nitin-


S-sophisticated SURESH means SURE. trouble 4 SURE 4 me n SURE 2 do somethin 4
U-untold himself. I know him since 5 long yrs from 1st BDS days wen this
R-reasonable man used to hunt my mind daily for about 2-3 hrs daily apart from
E-estimated college hrs even during exam time.
S-sharp VENUE- roadside infront of my house
H-hunter SUBJECT- all the daily happenings of his great dissection table.

He virtually thinks a lot, more of unnecessary than wat is necessary. He s hardworking, punctual but lacks patience and is always on high moods, excited and eager to know the results before exams or to go somewhere before journey.

Dr.Nilesh Kadam

BOOSTER BOY.... as called by me :)
Dr. suresh shenvi, i dont know how to start and how to write this all stuff... but surely ur writing in blog definately inspired many like me ...... especailly that topic of journey of life :)
we met in nov 09 while travelling for aiims exam in train had a nice tyme in train.
then we cam on orkut chatted many tymes still that process is ON
later he got admission in KCET i was very happy since he was deserving AIPG actually but wht u called Destiny u cant changed ... but he cracked Kcet
he was always there for me whenver i had any doubt or any personal problem to share
people after getting PG admission actually forget near ones ,, but this man is somehting DIFFerent, he still helping MDS aspirant to clear their goal.. thats really a gr8 job ... I call him booster boy since whenever i was frustrsted with studies he was inspiring me all d tyme... thanks (shenvi)-- as called by his friends :)helping is his nature that ask nothing from u
thats very nice attitude. :)

many thing to write abt him.....
people already written so i ll not repeat same things
but yes
ONE LINE I WOULD MENTION HERE
he always with some Qoutes caption in his orkut account which have some meaning for others to read
here is one for our friendship my friend
“Life is partly what we make it, and partly what it is made by the friends we choose.”
cheeers
would like to c u on top of endodontist ...... :)
so ending this testimonial
***************ALL IS WELLLLL*********************
SPECIAL NOTE ---kuch grammatical errorrs rahenge surely ,,,,, KINDLY IGNORE :)



DEEPA

"Genius is 1% inspiration,99% perspiration" aptly suits Dr Suresh Shenvi!Being modest even at the pinacle of success, simplicity, diligence and sincerity are some qualities of him which i have discovered in a memorable association of 5 years. Suresh, U have beaten all odds n risen like a phoenix!M sure u wil reach great heights.
Wishing u success all the way.........




Dr. Vinayak(PT)


WELL HERE I AM WRITING THIS TESTI TO A MAN WHO CANNOT BE EXPLAINED IN WORDS! U GOT TI MEET HIM TO EXPERIENCE IT! THE THOUGHTS OF THE FIRST YEAR OF MY PHYSIOTHERAPY IS STILL FRESH AS THE MINT LEAVES SPRINKLED WITH WATER! THIS GUY AT THAT TIME WAS REALLY AFTER MY LIFE ASKING ME WHAT I STUDIED THE PREVIOUS DAY AND WHAT THEY THOUGHT IN THE COLL! ALL THIS FOR HALF AN HOUR WHILE V WER ON OUR WAY TO COLL IN THE MORNING AND AGAIN AGONISINGLY FOR A FULL 60 MINS IN THE EVENING! BUT THEN WHEN I LOOK BACK THE MEMORY LANE THIS GUY REALLY MADE AN IMPACT ON ME, IF IT WER NOT FOR HIS PERSISTANT TORMENTING OF ME I AM SURE I WOULD NEVER BE WHAT I AM! HE WAS REALLY HELPFUL DURING MY EXAM TIMES! HE REALLY IS A CLASS ACT AND GEM OF A PERSON! I COULD NOT ASK FOR A BETTER BROTHER, FRIEND, GUIDE AND A PHILOSOPHER! HE TRULY HAS BEEN ALL OF THESE TO ME! PROUD OF U SHENVYA! KEEP SMILING BRO AND GOD BLESS U!!!!!!!!!



DR.Prateek


its hard to write nice things about ppl who dnt really deserve thm ,your testimonial for me exemplifies that..and really it is the most humble and overwhelming thing someone has ever said or written for me,im certainly nt worthy of such a praise :-)thanks suresh.
wtever you have achieved today is all bcz of ur own efforts and brain,and im sure this is just the beginning..life has a lot to offer you in future, just keep ur arms open and welcome every opportunity.
be as you are,enjoy the new hostel life as much as you can:-)
always hoping to hear frm you.
do keep in touch.

Pooja

so..............Dr.suresh
i call him shenvi:) complete ENCYCLOPEDIA OF DENTISTRY
few words describin shenvi r SINCERITY,HARD WORKIN ,head amongst d DESCENT GUY in d class.n the one who keeps prescribin people ''LOAD NAI LENEKA'';)
to know more bout him one should have a glance over his evolution4m 1st pu t coll.............he's changed a lot (looks more smarter now)
he is d person whoz tried alot t change my attitude towards................?& is still tryin............
AND a person whom i like t irritate d most
:)


Dr. sameer

mmm..this is shenvi as most of call him..in short he is not completely but ha almost comparable 2 akshay s role in dch;serious in life n very calculative... he s a man of few words but can write a biography on each n every person he knows.

a short profile 2 know him better:
his hobby-studying
favourite passtime-studying
and guess wat does he do when he s bored-.... ya, u ve guessed it right..

he might give u a first impression of not being very different from the others but trust me he is special..


one thing which is common in him and the rest of my friends is just that he makes me feel lucky 2 have him as my dear friend..


Shital (Saraf)

in this case i need not think wat to write..bcoz its straight from my heart..he is one of my brother where i need not hesitate to talk wat i want to..he is open to all my view points and respects them too...i can look up to him any time..i know he is all ready to help me anytime i need him..to sweet..to caring..very very loving..lucky to get a brother like him..infact a best friend....thanks for everything SURESH...u r just the best...be the same..u dont ever dare to change...



DR.Shivayogi


suresh ur sincere hard working guy n maintain what ur now..u have bright future ahead ..ur master of all just keep ur calm til u reach ur goal. brother want to see u as a famous orthodontist ..all the best ,,keep smiling


Dr Ashwini saraf

hmmm...wat 2 say bout suresh...i know him since 6 yrs when i ws in 10th...hes 1 of my sweetest cousin...he helps me a lot ....trust me he is very intelligent....hes a very nice human bein too...i like his way of livin he never luks back...he is very ambitious ...m sure he ll achieve everythin he wishes...all da best 4 future dear!!!!u r my buddy..



Vijay Malamande


S: smart
U: unbelievably talented
R: racy
E: energetic
S: steroid (lots and lot)
H: helping personality
and it doesn't end here...
he is one of my very good friend of mine... meet him daily and our conversation
never ends


Abhijeet

The Performer.


Dr.Aditya


this is shenvi sir the ultimate senior one can get.He is a cool guy as he guides u & also tells how to enjoy life while studing.A GREAT & ULTIMATE person. But amazingly for unknown reasons girls i think stay away from him.so all my juniors plz stay in contact with him


Dr.Swathi

hey guys this guy is nice, very short tempered, studies a lot lot lot, dont believe him when he says he is not prepared for exams. that means he has prepared a lot and is gonna top. hot topic for gossiping amongst girls.............


dr.νινєк

he inspires n inspires......a lot....really gud fren....now days very keen to enjoy...has changed a lots..for the better...a workaholic in my view...my senior nw officially...b4 he was senior too but unofficially !!...he he


Aniruddh

He is one my brothers and one of the best.He is my best friend and also a kind of a role model.He is a very cool person often jolly and always smiling.The first dentist in our family,because of him many people in the family is opting for dentistry.He is one of the best of my cousins.I should say he is a great person to be with when you are bewildered or sad.
enjoi mann......:)


Mαиđαя...

MY BIG BRO"-definately the first dentist in our family and has many following his path.Has lots of courage,guts and is very hardworking and dedicated towards whatever he does.He will definatly soon become the most successful dentist in the city



Madhav

Suresh Shenvi, my bro and my best friend, we two have always been side by side since time immemorial... an ace photographer, always keeps tinkering with wires and gadgets, is really good at fixing things, though he has taken up Dentistry, hope he puts his medical skills to use and really gives people a nice smile on their faces!



VANI

suresh.......one of my best friend in my life.......first friend in my BDS life ........... very nice person by heart........suresh i dont know u get angry on me very soon na.....we both argue a lot in study matter.....in long posting in final year we used to fight a lot.......in first year i learned a lot from him.........suresh u r a friend and a teacher to me and u r the one who used u to tell me about my mistakes i am really thankfull to u for that........really hard working and very intellgent........i am really lucky to have u as my best friend in my life.......always keep SMILING ok.................



Dr.Priyanka


Suresh... a person wit die or do attitude... m happy he got wat he struggled for..Gettin pg seat in first attempt was his sole dream.... suresh is a hard worker, he can sit for hours man to study... which i need to learn frm him.. n above all a gud person n a gud frnd of mine....
wishing u luck in everything you do...



SPOORTI


..wat 2 say ABT THIS GUY..k jst few words..wen i ws 1st year i hardly used 2 see any guys n he was among them..wit his front hair covering half of his forehead quite, innocent,dumb i think nt so much appreciable in studies n any activities ,used 2 manage bit by bit every1 always used to recognise him by his brother..days passed our final exams wer ahead atlast we finished... gt results..man he was 2nd highest..i thnk every1 was shocked..now wat to say... we stepped in 2nd yr his roll no was behind me,all d postings v were together.. i hav seen his hard work n pains he hd taken 2 reach his top goals but ha always in a right way,even though my name is SPOORTI bt always i was inspired by him...the guy who stepped so high in each yr n nw he is recognisd BY EVERONE by his own name SURESH D SHENVI no need a tag of his brother."u proved it SURESH a hard work n sincerity do have place in these days also".. now see his front hair its always above forehead..y nt he proved it..OOFH isnt a few words 2 describe him.



ANU


It was by shear luck that i got to know this guy,It was the time when i was all screwed up on how to prepare 4 mds,i didn't know any1 who had qualified.He is my seniour's fiance's frnd,was checking out their engagement pics when i saw his pic,i misunderstood him as 1 of mystaff member who had left college after marriage,clicked to find out,but turned out to b some 1 else ,found that he had cleared mds that yr,isn't that strange,i was looking all this while 4 some1 in my city n here by shear luck i found 1.I asked him 4 guidance n he was sweet enough to help me out after just 1 scrap,that is what he does to every 1 always ready to lend a helping hand to all n somehow he is not satsfied that he is there at the pinnacle of his success,but he wants every 1 around him to reach his heights so that he can share his success with them. Thats what this sweet frnd (read brother bcoz he is like that to me) is all about. U rarely find such awesome human beings around u,every where green eyed jealousy dominates.since my holidays,used to come online whenever i was bored, pretty often,used to find him online n v used to chat.He lifted me,guided me,when i was depressed motivated me to bring out the best in me so that i can b there where he is.Isn't that enthralling all that coming from a complete stranger,then he asked me to chek out his blog,i saw my exact replica,he is so much like me,v think on similar.I could relate to everything he wrote,understand each bit of it to full stop.Not only is he an awesome humanbeing but also a very emotional guy who knows that true happiness lies not in plain materialistic pleasures,he knows what makes life worth living and cherishes it.That is why he is crazy about his frnds.His buddies r extremely lucky that u have a true frnd like him,sometimes i think he cares more 4 u guys than himself.Do cherish this blessing n never lose this precious frnd.U r extremely lucky.GOOD LUCK 4 UR LIFE BOSS/BRO

LIFE WILL ALWAYS HAVE GOoD IN STORE 4 U ALL BCOZ U HAVE GOOD 4 EVERY 1, god is watching he will bestow his blessings on u always take care bro
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MY SINCERE THANKS TO DR.SOUMYA KAMBLI FOR HER IMMENSE SUPPORT IN FINDING A NAME FOR THIS BLOG NAME :D "SURESH D. SHENVI- A REVIEW!!!"

Wednesday, January 13, 2010

Life is unpredictable..

It was my friends birthday today. I was an internal expert too for that day for 2nd bds exam, was on cluod number 9. I remebered my bds days when we all had that strange fear of exam, the tension which we all used have day before that. The way we used to fear about getting screrwed by the external, looking as if he holds our future, sometimes acting to make him feel that we know the answer but cant express, and sometimes truly respecting him for his kind words “verry good, Keep it up “ which leads to that adrenaline rush my body.

This time I was on the other side, conducting spotters, correcting those papers, helping students in cavity preparation, feeling bad when they did not answer that simple question when external asked him, that moment reminded me the way I used to hard work in studies during those BDS days.

I did feel that something special when the external said very good for our one of the student.. why not?? We r teaching them from last 8 months.. although I am not that close to complete that dream of becoming a teacher , but I do love that feeling of reaching one step closer to it.

Strange.. this time I did not have the feel of the exam at all. It was just like another day, a normal , but seeing juniors giving exam, was something different.

When you enter Pg. life is different, u r no more like a student to your staff, most of the time they look in different way, sometimes , like a friend, sometimes family, sometimes as if they know u from lot many days, and sometimes they do forget u r name so fast.

The exam was almost over, although students did not perform well, but I do realized that each persons is different, and u cant expect the same knowledge from each of them. U need to mold u r judging nature according to the studetns level.
When we were the student , we do feel angry on the examiner when he fails some one.. but today I was on the otheside now, and believe me , u feel nothing at all when u r shouting on student, u don’t feel anything at all when u r failing them, u don’t feel anything at all when u complement them , but those each act might provoke a tremendous response in the students, so magnified , It can lead to suicide or heart full of happiness.

It was afternoon, the external was a passout of the same college, I asked him,, sir were u staying in the hostel too during u r pg life,, He says with a big smile, Yes..Those were the best days of my life,Best 3 years.. one thing which observed .. nomatter how big u become in life but , u will always miss the college days, u will always miss ur parents, u will always miss the friends, the good time u had, u will surly cherish those moments..in the end he gave some cash to one old lady worker too, I guess she was there when he was a student here.. he did remember her .. isnt it?


Had a great time with him, having lunch, marking the scores in the final sheet, sealing them, burning all those rough copies so that nobody comes to know the marks, it was strange.. its like u trying to hide secret by burning the photos of u r loved once who never understood the way feel about them, just to convenience u r self that it never happened. But u still know , nomatter what u do,, u really cant hide the secret from urself ..isnt ?

I was tired , was working from morning 8 to 4.. I slept off in the hostel,, strange, was getting the calls from all those which I never expected..nothing feels great when u r half in sleep and u get a call from all those pals who made u r life worth, its like I was living a dream.


It was 7 . we all planned dinner on that night for the friends birthday, I was getting ready. Low waist jeans, red colour shirt, deo all around, fully shaved glowing face with that moisturizer over it, looked at mirror, checked my hairstyle, everything looks perfect. Wondering how life gave such a good look after 24 years. I smiled :)

A brought a gift rapper for the collage which I made for my friend, wrapping it.. was already late 20 min, friends were waiting for me downstairs.. roommate was tensed about his seminar, locked my room.

I Ran . was feeling great. Sitting in my co-pgs swift, listening to Michel Jackson songs, felt bad , told my friends that according to one paper he was actually murdered.. he was a legend, love his songs.

Picked up another co-pg, laughing a loud on the jokes, beating to the songs, guessing what others will be telling to us for reaching there late..
It was good to see all 11 together , celebrating the birthday, playing who, with whom doing what game, giving gifts and wishes, teasing one another, discussing some serious things.. Mind was too too active,, it was full of laugh, why not.. it was after somany days after we celebrating somebodies birthday in our group., U know, it feels good when u see at the birthday boy , or girl, although u r not actually boring again, but actually u getting old , for which u celebrating..strange right? But that day just gives u some special time in those 365 days of year, just to come out of that normal routine schedule of u r life, just giving some time to other to forget that old fights, the times, and to realize them that u still the same.. It feels good when u r the center of attraction on that day, feeling good isn't it?
We all loved the food, laughed together, just end the celebration with listening the song which the birthday girl dedicated for all of us.


Few left early , few were left by auto, we 4 were sat in the swift,, heading to fulfill my wish of having an ice cream, all were excited, almost all shops were closed at that that, driving fast to find that last shop, we did get that ice cream just infront my hostel... shared , taking each bite of the different flavors,. Was standing near the car.. I saw a small puppy, I said..look Piyush,, That puppy is soooo sooo cute, I whistled at it, it came to me with shaking its tail , felt so good.. I remembered my cat , which was there with me for 11 years, which I finally lost one day, I miss it. It was there with me during my worst days life, waiting for me evryday, and even the day when she died, a dog was responsible for it.. I wish she was there with me today, to share the good days too..

I tried to make that puppy run away from me, as animals generally get too attached to u at the first moment , and I know how it feels when u get attached and later loose it,, hence I prefer not too.. it did go away somewhere.

The day went too best.. some of the best thing I learned .. always express u r feelings, u r love to some one for whom u r the world and do express it to someone for whom u not at all important, because life is all about expressing your feelings and not about impressing ..

The problem is we always thought we all will live till our twilight years. We keep busy making plans and schedules. We always say we will do this or that when the time comes. But do you know, the truth is the time might not come as planned or hoped for? If you want to forgive someone, or tell somebody you love him or her, I say do it now. Remember the short witty quote:"Life is short, eat dessert first"? Don't wait. Seize the day and just do it.

Expect less from others, may be it exams , may it be life, because if u expect more and if those r not met, u r bound to get hurt at the end.
Always treat others in special way, make them realize that u r life is empty without them.,..

Always try to make someones day special, not because that they will do it for u one day,, its because , there is lot of happiness in making those days special of those 10 -20 pals of u r life, who may be just a small part, for caring for u may be just for one day in life.. rather than trying to make just one persons life special, because , 3 years down the life , u will hardly find somany chances to make someone happy isnt ? and believe me.. the more person u make happy, the more u will

The last lesson which I learned to end the day..
Live present , love the present, enjoy it.. don’t waste your life worrying about future, although it does mean that u need to plan and achieve it, but live for each moment … u know why??

I wish I had not stopped that puppy, I wish I had not whistled at it.. I wish it had not liked me so much, I wish I had not said “ Look its sooo soo cute”

Because, the moment we all sat in that car, the moment the car moved forward….




It died

Life is unpredictable.. isnt it ?

Friday, January 8, 2010

STARS OF MY LIFE

It's around 7 years for our friendship , whats called the great seven belgaum boys group... this is just an attempt to preserve those testimonials which i wrote for my best pals while i was leaving Belgaum :) cheers to all of u:)




Anil

says everything with his silence:)



It was the 1st day when i was new to these faces, wondering how could anyone make me a part of their life,, May be all 6 showed the same gentle attitude but it was anil who took the first move. Without asking me about my bad past, with that smile , he asked me to join them in eve party.



I really wonder what did these boy found in me , why did they gave me a chance to become a part of their friends group.. now known as Affi's group.
We all met again at dot 7 at 2nd gate , had a great time in a Chinese restaurant,,talking about the college life.. This guy said ,'Hey Shenvi'...u know when u meet some new person.. u never get the name with so much of catch in it. This guy simply made it easy and till today i love the way how calls me shenvi..The football game,, cricket, the gokak trip,Pattar sirs class.man i miss them..

Anil is a person with a lot of Patience .I really dont understand his silence, but the way he speaks about the complicated things like feelings,, may be he too has experienced it a lot.. He is only one such guy in us,who has still not shared a secret. Try to ask him.He will smile with that molar to molar smile and says nothing but in the end says everything with the silence. Nevermind. He is the one who knows what life exactly means. Each bit of it. loves his JC college a lot,,The one who calls everytime when he comes to Belgaum, and the one who takes best care of his teeth.. more than me[Dentist].I love the way he stands on the beach with the sand sinking around.looking at the end of the sea,i wonder what he thinks..And how can i forget the best discussion in the eve on 2nd Goa trip. my god. thats the biggest ever.There is difference between saying it and doing it..

And i am sure we did prove that, we can really do what we say,one day we saw a hill at a distance and next day we were on the top of it.eating the stuff which we all brought together,watching the sky, full of clouds,i wish i would have some snaps of it..How can i forget the laughs which we all had together in our all time Favorite Hotel Green.The 4 hours of non stop talk,may be 4 times a year.I love the way how we all spend time together when i go to Bangalore,, after all than walking around,we still manage to talk till night 12,I guess this what true friendship means.

And I am sure there is still lots to come..



Manoj..

the one who cares the most:)



The one and only, rare visionary of our great Belgaum boys group and Pattars sirs favorite student.. Yup u r right.Manoj ri

I know..He was the last guy to accept me in our whats called affi group.Never mind.I still cherish that I have these 6 friends of mine..

When it comes to caring ..May be he does not express it too often... but the time when he spends with me .I guess expresses everything.. Trying to maintain my secret. calling me eveytime to know my lifes updates is what i like the most.[EXCEPT STUDIES].He was the one who always manages to prove my theories wrong.but yes.when it comes to matter of girls.I am the boss here ok.for rest of the things not even abhi cant win with him


The life after 2nd puc has been quite different. May be Abhi left us in middle way.. the rest of the guys never stopped enjoying..the goa trip.. the green hotel dinner, the depo ground discussion, the birthday party..love them


May be all 5 of them ended up in Bangalore. But whenever he comes to belgaum. makes sure that ,he will at least spend sometime with me.. and tries to inspire me , I believe he was the one who has always taken care of our usual fights. and yes how can i forget the one fight which i had with him , the only one which we had while playing football in 2nd puc.




How can i forget the Paav Bhaji which he makes.. how can i forget the the goa discussion which we all together had during our revisit to goa.. thanks to anil

looks so innocent some times.. the time when says the things which he expect from his dream girl.. I can see the deep feeling buried , the amount of hard work he puts to make his dream come true.. they guy who does what he says.. but when it comes to holidays.. he wont leave the bed ok.. loves to sleep.. music .. style.. imagination.. reading novels.. movies.. lot many.. Yes the 2nd gate JBS and round table conference

How can i forget the calls in the night 2..the way he admires my friendship.. they way he forgets the world for every 5 min with his deep thinking.. how can i forget the way he missed vj when vijay was posted in ankola.. man i miss them

One advise buddy.. u don't have run behind success.. i am sure.. one day that will knock u r door..

I believe in u

Be the same always..



Vijay

The best of Best pal :)


I am like Dr. House and he is like the oncologist Dr.Wilson.. Watch Dr.House series and u will know what exactly this friend of mine means to me

I still remember the day when i met him for the first time in jannu sirs class.He was the first one to meet in our whats called Affi group. Riding the bicycle with him.realizing that he was my bros best pals brother.Its almost 7 long years already..Although 5 of other pals ended up in Bangalore..j is the only guy who entered the medical field with me.From that point.i cant even imagine my single day without him


The guy who life dictionary doesn't have the word called as tension,, the guy who takes the life as it comes..the guy who loved to enjoy the every moment of life..

In last 7 years , although Anil, Puneet, Manya, Abhi, Anup still cared ,, Vijya was the one who has traveled with me this far..


I was lucky enough to get this sweet friend .. who has given me smile the day when i was depressed,, he has given me support.. the day when i cried,, he has given me the party , the day when i have achieved something new..

I still remember.. this guy had not got the puc-2 result when others already were celebrating.. Me and Manoj were walking towards his home... Vj comes of his house,, and says.. guys ..I passed,, Thanks to god.. god he has always managed to keep us together

The goa trip was memorable.. the trip started with the fight with Vijya.. That was the only time when i was angry on this guy.. may be i made a mistake there.. but buddy.. The trip was my idea right.. .. and that's the lifes best trip ever.. so u can forgive me for that.How can i forget the day when i asked him about my decision of taking BDS as my option in the 2nd round of counseling.. although i was happy that in the first round we both got seat in same college.

but buddy.. i guess it never mattered for both of us.. although we studied in two different courses.. u know na.. we have almost met each single day a year.

There is not a single secret which this best friend of my does not know.. may be it academics,, may be its a girls matter,,, may be its the matter some depressing situation. he knows each bit about it.. Although rest 5 in my affis group are best pals too .. but he is the best of best.

The guy who loves to listen rather than commenting.. thats what i like about him the most.. he will calmly listen to each bit of word and at the end will give a smile for sure..

The guy who loves playing PC games.. the movies,, the Chinese soup... the vada pav..
The few days back before my graduation day.. u know right?? this guy who made me realize the mistake which i did in my past 5 years.. I dont know how will that matter will endup..but buddy i am thankful to u.. although u should have told me about it few months back it self.. but yr thanks a lot

If u had not done it. i guess my life would have not turned it somuch... and i guess i would have not got my 2nd chance..

The guy who loves swimming.. the beach.. the deshmukh road.. the ice cream.. and many things

How can i forget the manyas call on the day when Vj was posted in Ankola.. that guy almost cried for missing this guy.. i guess that proved how much this guy is important for us

And yes. manya is the guy who loves to irritate him the most..

I cant imagine my 2nd puc without him.. i cant imagine my BDS is without.. i can say.. i cant imagine my life without him.. This guy means so much to me..
And yes. i remember.. my lifes just 3 months of Gym..I used to love his company.. my god.those days were awesome..

The guy who always in trouble because of our late night walks. because out late night talks..

I too remember our discussion about deep space.. me , anup , vj on the terrace .. man it went too deep ok.. watching deep sky and thinking about it ,,, it was nice.

I too remember our discussion about deep space.. me , anup , vj on the terrace .. man it went too deep ok.. watching deep sky and thinking about it ,,, it was nice.
and ya.. the plan u and anup did when he took new cell.. U scared the hell out me..

May be u did the right things there..Everything happens for a reason and i know that will end up somewhere

How can i forget the best photo which i had taken.. the last film remaining in the roll.. me and vj went almost 10 km to take that snap... vj and sky..

Although he did miss the round table conference in Bangalore ,, anyway Nitin played the role quite ok at that time as a substitute.

Man i will miss u for my next 3 years of MDS...

He was bit serious in the middle of internship.. but i guess he figured it out.. Buddy.. i am sure.. u will know u r aim soon

And ya..i remember u r complaint about the filling which i did.. dont worry.. Me doing specialization in same.. i guess next time u wont have complaint again and yes for free

I cant forget the evry sec which i have ever spent with him.. never.

I just wish.. we both end up in the same place.. and still continue our daily chats, the American coupsy.. the corn.. the cool top limbu soda, the hari mandir vada pav.. the night time unlimited downloads.. the non sense talks .. and etc ect

may be there r lot many things i cant mention here.. may be i cant express how much this guy has done for me.. may be rest of my pals dont express it much.. buddy.. u were the best in the 7 belgaum boys group... be the same.. smiling.. laughing..



Wish u luck buddy..

u r my best of best pal



Puneet

The guy undiscovered:)


The only guy who still the same after 7 long years of journey of our friendship.The guy still has the same cool attitude, the same cool nature ,no matter what the situation is. May be all have lots of up and downs in life but what makes him special is how he always managed to smile, made others laugh, made others moments count..

Some call him Battery.. Some call him Affi..I call him Punya.

Once he and abhi used to be the best pals. I still remember how punya used to ride is old black hero puch , the way we all 7 used to rush to the classes.. we 7 together had the best year of our life. the 2nd puc..

The way we all 7 together used to trouble Jannu sir,, they way he used to make us laugh evnthough the sir used to get angry on him too often. The way we enjoyed the Pattar sirs class.. damn.. those were the best day
The gokak trip.. the Hidkal dam photo session.. those were the few best moments too.

how can i forget the best goa trip which we still remember bit by bit...we were damn lucky.. this guy was about to miss the best trip of our life..anyway without him it would not have been the best. .

May be life after puc has changed in many ways. may be he is bit disappointed about others pals.. but i still try to make him realize that, even one misses out of belgaum group.. it wont be the same anymore

May be.. Some pals.. and most of the girl does not understand the true sense of this guy.. but believe me .. he is just not another ordinary guy.. the girl who will get him will be the luckiest.. how many of u has the true smile in the worst days of life?? not easy isnt it?

May be luck gave him some ups and downs . few bad expiriences .. buddy.. life is the same always.. those were u r words right.. we need to take life as it comes.. I will cherish those words for sure.. they mean a lot for me

The friend who truly guides me in specially whats called in the matter of feelings. I know many cant believe it? Punya in senti mode!!.. believe me.. he does... I cant forget the big lecture which he gave me on that depo ground at night 8.15 pm.. man that made me realize how deeply he had cared for me.. Punya.. i am really thankful to u for those words..." think beyond obvious".. I always try to remember those words of urs when i try a bit more to open up my mind

The guy who believes in trying evrybit of life.. atleast once !!

How can i forget the fights of Manya and Punya.. ha ha.. it used to be awesome.. Me , Anil, Vj used to love it.. and now after 7 years i still miss it..

Although not much expressive... but to close pals he is the one who helps the most..

I cant imagine my MDS entrace exam preparation without him.. helping me eveytime when i came to Bangalore.. he was the one who had always called me two days before whenever he comes to know that i am planning to come..

I miss the time spent with him in Bangalore after that round table conference with all my best pals and nitin.. I loved the way he made me smile after that incident

May be he was bit harsh sometimes on other friends.. but buddy.. no matter what the situation is ..I know . , anil, anup, manoj, vijjay know the importance of u.. they just love teasing u..may be u dont like it much.. but thats how u always made their special

I loved the way he explained me his dream about getting a new life.. believe me buddy.. even i never think so deeply and purely.. I wish u get it soon..

Dost.. In all 6 of my best pals.. it was u.. who made me laugh during my bad times.. Even though evrybody cared...

These are my best pals.. whom i remember each day.. each moment.. I cant imagine my life without them being around me..

May be life has taken big turn.. evrybody getting busy.. may be u wont find me next time when u come belgaum.. buddy just want u to know.. U all made my life count

Best of luck pal.. I dont know whether i will meet u r expectation.. But will surly try

Be the same.. Smile..Laugh.. Joke.. make others life best.. and i am sure.. god will give u the best one day

U r a nice pal buddy

Thanks for evrything :)